Why do we think other people should never get upset? Or why do we expect other people to always get along? Or why do we think people should know what we are thinking without us telling them? Or why do we think other people should think like we think or do what we think they …
Tag: practice
Be PROUD of YOU!
Be PROUD of YOU! Look for and pay attention to all the things you do, all the things you accomplish, all the things you help with, all the things you get right, how you show up each day and serve your family and your work, how you take care of yourself and others! YOU ARE …
repeat. calling.
A friend one time asked me to answer the question, “what does living your 'calling' means to you and what does it look like in your life?” We tend to think our calling, or our purpose, is to do something grand, to accomplish something. We tend to look at what the world considers valuable, or …
Do you have a pleasing aroma?
What fragrance does your life exude? Do you embody faith? Do you embody trust in God in all things? Does your faith draw people closer to God or repel them from God? Do you “smell” of peace and joy and hope and love? Or do you “smell” of bitterness, resentment, judgment, and discontent? God always …
Repeat. On LOVE.
We must know love, accept love, and receive love for our-self. We must know God's love for us, deep inside, to be able to offer love well to others. We cannot give something to others that we don't have ourselves. We MUST spend time with God to KNOW His LOVE. If we want to be changed, transformed, …
Happy Valentine’s Day.
If you profess love to someone, then you should practice showing them love with your words and actions. This sounds so nice. And I wish that it were always true, that when someone professed love then loving actions followed but sadly, we know that is not the case. I have good news. We can feel …
Ideal. Real. Tension.
There is a gap between where we are (the real) and where we want to be (the ideal) which creates tension. We must accept this gap, and the tension we feel, as we move towards becoming the person Jesus teaches us to be. We live towards the ideal Jesus teaches without condemning those who fall …
This Is How It Is.
People seem to battle with reality. They think life “should go” a certain way. They have expectations and ideals about how people should be, about how the world should be, about what is supposed to happen. Then when people, the world, situations, do not go as they expected they become angry, frustrated, disappointed, unhappy with …
What transformation looked like for me.
Most of my life I felt unlovable and unworthy of love. A few years ago, I read all Brené Brown’s books. I learned through her work that the difference between the people who lived wholeheartedly and those who didn’t was that they believed they were worthy of love and belonging. I decided I wanted to …
Decide to Believe.
Decide to believe and then practice believing until you believe. Believe you are worthy of love. Believe you are loved. Believe you belong wherever you are, doing whatever you’re doing. Be intentional about believing God’s Truth about you. You are a child of God. You are loved by The King. You are filled with the …
seeking and discovering a better WAY 